I Don’t Play Softball…

Calvin & Hobbes Baseball

I’m beginning to think that I can’t really tell people that “I don’t play softball” anymore.  Although I really don’t think I play softball.  The thing is that for someone who doesn’t play softball, I’ve played a lot of softball.  I’ve played in intramurals, I’ve played for fun, I’ve even played in a softball tournament.  So I guess, it really is a lie to say that “I don’t play softball”.  I should say, “Softball is not my sport of choice” or “I don’t really like softball”.  I guess in mind though, to say that I play softball is equivalent to saying that I am good at softball and I’m not.  So it makes it hard for me to say anything besides “I don’t play”.  I’m not good at softball.  I think I can bat okay but the whole throwing and catching thing isn’t very good.  I have this problem where I throw the softball like a football.  Therefore, I cannot throw it accurately to the person.  It usually ends up to their right and on the ground.  Because this happens, I don’t have confidence in throwing it and end up throwing it worse most of the time.  Anyway, I think that I can play softball when it is for fun, just rec ball.  But when it gets all serious and competitive, then I get scared and lose confidence.  But I’ll still play if everyone goes out to play.

But really guys, I don’t play softball softball is not my sport of choice.

Sports Ministry

The purpose of sports ministry is to fellowship, hang out, have fun, and outreach.  In all honesty, I actually find it kind of difficult to invite people from other parts of my life to come out and play.  And if I do happen to invite people, I always say something like, hey people from my church all go and play FillInSportHere on Sundays, do you want to come?  I include the church part because I don’t want people to show up and then get all caught off guard when we pray before we start.  However, I feel like by saying that its people from church rather than just my friends, it deters people from coming.  I think people get scared when they hear the word church.  I think that they might feel like we are going to preach to them or try to sucker them into something.  The last thing I’d want anyone to feel is pressured.  So what can I do?  I guess I extended the invite.  It’s up to them if they want to come or not.

American Gladiators

I’m watching American Gladiators right now and I just realized that the female gladiators are not THAT big! The guy gladiators are over 6 feet tall and most weigh over 250lbs that thats muscle weight, not fat. However, the girl gladiators, with the exception of maybe a few are not really “huge”, they are just very lean and have muscles. I think the women contenders actually have a good chance at these gladiators.

It would be really fun to play the gladiator things with just all your friends. Or even just a huge obstacle course with only a bunch of friends. :)  I want to go on the eliminator!

Joyful Company

Every company should have a company or at least an department event once every few months or so.  I think it really helps improve employee morale.  Our department got to leave early this past Friday to go and play softball, eat and drink, and be merry.  I could sense that people were in high spirits on Friday.  Everyone was excited to go out and play and just hang out together.  People got to interact with others they haven’t before and it was just fun.  It was nice to see people’s personalities outside of work.  I think doing something like this every few months would just help make employees happier and have something fun to look forward to.

Technology Makes People Helpless

Let’s see, what is the point of technology?  It seems like technology tends to make things faster and more efficient and sometimes “cooler”.  But with all this new technology, we tend to use our minds less.  We no longer need to take the effort to learn how to do somethings because all these new gadgets and equipment do it for us.  With us not being forced to use our minds, I think we might lose the ability to use our own heads and also lose the ability to “know how” to do things if technology weren’t around.

How many phone numbers do you know by heart?  Do you know any?  Do you even know your own phone number?  Chances are you know few, maybe your own, a significant other, your parents, a best friend.  What happens if you lose that cell phone?  You’re pretty much helpless.  You know no ones number nor do you have any way of contacting anyone.  Luckily a pay phone is not that difficult to use.

How about a map?  There were days where when you needed to go somewhere, you pulled up a map on paper and figured out the directions that way.  With GPS and Google Maps, I wonder if some people even know how to use a map.

Soon enough, people won’t even know how to write.

Now what about the people who all know how to use the “old school” stuff but don’t know how to use this new technology?  They’re basically helpless as well.  These people have basically missed the transition of things.  Technology moves so quickly that as soon as you master one thing, there is something newer and better that you have to relearn.  It seems very difficult for this set of people to ever catch up.

Computers are way too complicated to operate, as well as cell phones, cameras, and ipods (heck, what’s an ipod?)  So we end up leaving these people behind and helpless as well.  Nearly everything people use these days require some technological knowledge.  What good is that new gadget you got your mom if she doesn’t even know what it is or how to operate it?

There once was a lady who was a temp at the company I worked at.  She had to have two applications up to move data back and forth between the two.  At one point she called me over and needed help.  She said that she had opened up the first application and now the second, but she couldn’t see the first application anymore.  I was like oh, it looks like the second application you have opened just has its window maximized, just go ahead and minimize or resize the window.  She said, oh do you think you can do it for me?  Huh?!  Really?  Just click this I tell her.  Oh she says.  At another point she had made one of the rows in her excel spreadsheet wider than the others and didn’t know how to change the size of the row.  Now this lady was very sweet and nice but she really did not know how to use a computer.  Something so basic to many of us was completely foreign to her.  She ended up leaving before the week was over because she was too overwhelmed by the technology.

So is technology a good thing?  I think sometimes.  I think if you are one of the people who keep up to date with things then yes.  But I also think we need to take extra effort to train ourselves to know what to do when technology fails.

CBC Bball Tourney

The tournament was a lot of fun!  We didn’t do that well in the tournament but we could have done really well!  We had 3 guaranteed games and the performance would determine if we made it into the playoffs.  We lost our first game by 1 point!!!  We lost our second game by 1 point as well!!!! And we won our third game by about 20 points.  1 point.  The first team that we lost to by 1 point ended up taking it all.  I think the competition was fairly even which means we had a really good chance.  Next year (famous words).  We just needed one tall person.  I can’t believe we lost both games by 1 point!!!!  I still can’t believe it.  We just needed to win at least two games and I think we would have made it in the playoffs.  Nevertheless it was still fun to be able to play indoor basketball on a nice court with a nice ball.

Next year…

Miscommunication

Miscommunication can be a big problem, in fact, it is a big problem.  It happens a lot.  Miscommunication can cause so many things to go wrong.  You can end up waiting to meet someone at right wrong time or wrong day, you can get your food order wrong, you can end up getting surgery on the wrong part of your body, you can hurt people’s feelings, you can lose a ball game, you can make someone look bad, you can do a lot of things…  I feel like I somehow frequently find myself surrounded by this “miscommunication” and I don’t like it very much.  It just makes everything difficult.  Actually, now that I think about it, miscommunication is often caused by people making assumptions.  Ever heard of that saying “don’t assume” because when you assume, you make an ass out of u and me?  People assume things and things get all out of hand.

So how can we be better communicators?  There must be no ambiguity.  Think before your act.  Communicate frequently?  Try to understand each other’s way of viewing things?  Know where the person is coming from?  Find out the goal?

How?

What Was Your Name Again?

I should take more of an effort to remember people’s names. The thing is I can remember your name better if I’m not introduced to you. For example, if I was sitting somewhere with my friend or something and they pointed out people around us and what their names were, I would remember. However, if you introduce me to them, I won’t. I won’t because I don’t even bother to listen to the name. I know, bad habit. It just goes so quickly. Hi I’m blah blah, hi I’m blah blah. And then you move on.

Once I was at church and my friend introduced me to two people. About 5 minutes after that, not only did I not remember their name, I didn’t even remember what they looked like! Sheesh! I was like, who did you just introduce me to again? She was like, they’re right there (standing right beside me), you want me to introduce you again? Oops.

I bring this up because its nice for people to know your name. Today at work, I passed by this one guy and he knew my name and asked how I was doing. I knew his name but I didn’t think he knew my name. I also bumped into another guy that I met for the first time last week and he remembered my name too. What’s even cooler is that the CEO knows everyones name. It’s just a nice feeling, so I should definitely try to pay attention to who I’m being introduced to, what they look like, and what their name is.

Mickey D’s

On Friday, I went to lunch at McDonalds with my coworkers. I ordered a Filet o fish which is normally pretty tasty. I was about to eat it and was commenting on how the bun looked fake because it was so “perfectly plump” looking. Then I went to open up the bun and look inside. The piece of cheese was about ¼ of a normal slice of cheese! It seriously looked like the size of a those mini post its. I was like, uh..the heck why is the cheese so small?! And everyone was looking at it and laughing at it. And my coworker is like, why don’t you go ask them? I’m like uh no, you ask them. He’s like okay. LOL. So he took it and asked them why the cheese is so small. They’re like, oh we only put half a cheese slice on there. Uh..the heck. Why? The picture doesn’t show half a cheese! Ripoff. So they’re like, oh we can give you a whole one. So they took it and put a whole slice on. But now it wasn’t melted. So it tasted gross. Plus I was eating the sandwich and it was all watery! Like water was dripping out of the fish. And my coworker was like, its cause the fish was probably frozen. And then another coworker is like, they probably spit in your food cause you took it back!!! Oh man, they had a good laugh at that. And then I got an ice cream cone. I like their soft serve. Anyway, I got down to the final cone part and it has the paper wrapper on it so that people don’t touch the part you are actually going to eat. So I’m ripping off the wrapper so I can eat the rest of the cone to discover that they GLUE the wrapper on. So, I don’t even want to eat it, because there is GLUE on the cone!! So then they had a great laugh at that too! Stupid Mcdonalds.

Attention Dress and Skirt Wearers

Note to ladies who wear dresses or skirts:

I do not recommend wearing such apparel and sitting up high in the bleachers with your legs not closed nor do I recommend walking up steep bleachers.

Thanks.

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This lady was wearing a skirt and sitting at the top bleachers at basketball.  She should sit more properly especially since she is up high because everyone on the court can look up and see…  I told someone to tell that lady to sit better.  The lady didn’t take it too well. =P