baby o

I’ve only had 2 close set of friends that have given birth so far.  One of them is my friend J and D who live up north.  Since they live up north, I wasn’t able to really see J throughout her pregnancy or even see the baby when she was born.  I only finally met their baby girl back in March this year.  On the other hand, M and L, just had their baby boy.  Being close to them, I was able to basically watch M’s tummy get bigger and bigger with baby O.  I got to feel baby O testing out his karate skills through M’s tummy.  I haven’t been this close to anyone having a baby before.  We had all been awaiting O’s arrival.  I couldn’t wait for him to come out.

Seeing baby O made me think a lot.  I didn’t get to hold him yet because I’m still getting over a cold.  But, I’m already in love with him.  :)  It’s amazing to think that this baby was in M’s stomach!! The idea is still crazy to me – all this pregnancy stuff.  As we all celebrate the arrival of baby O, the beauty of this baby keeps resonating my mind.  I feel like this little boy has brought people a little closer, helped people become a little more sensitive, helped people feel, helped people observe and further realize that God creates beautiful beings.  I think there are few things in this world that can be called precious.  One of the definitions for precious is “Of great value; not to be wasted or treated carelessly.”  As I look into baby O’s face, I think, precious.  O is so precious.  I feel like baby O’s arrival has triggered some additional happy emotions in all of us – reminding us of the beauty of this life, this life that God has given to us.

I can’t wait to hold little O for the first time and watch him grow up. :)

Random Fact 4

Bird Silhouette TattooI’m intrigued by tattoos which also means I kinda like them.  I really liked this flying birds silhouette tattoo I saw on this girl’s back the other day.  This is something like the one I saw.  I also like the the ones that wrap around the bicep but probably a little higher up.

I also kind of like piercings – well, more like I really like my cartilage piercing and I’ve thought about getting another before.  But because it hurt so much and got infected so many times, I’m a bit reluctant.  Then I also wonder how professional that looks.  I’ve also been thinking about getting a colored barbell instead of the silver one I have but I wonder if that will be “too much” for the office.  Probably not for my office – might be much for when I have to meet vendors or higher ups.  But hey, it adds personality!  I’m thinking about some type of blue – maybe an ice blue or something.  Look at some colors here!  What do you think?  I also can’t remember what gauge mine is.  I think it’s 16 or 18.  Fail.  Anyway, the likelihood of getting a new one is probably pretty low considering the factors listed above, the price, and it’s a freaking pain to put in.

The end.

personality communications

People are interesting.  People’s personalities are interesting.  The way people conduct themselves is interesting.  Interpersonal relationship skills for everyone needs to be further developed.  What is a good way to present ourselves?  Is there one?  What’s a good way to act around certain people?  What’s a good way to speak?  I think we talk a lot about this and I’ve been noticing a lot of this lately in and out of the office.

I think it does go back to understanding how people best receive and give communication or act.  People are different.  Some people act a certain way for underlying reasons – insecurities?  Some people just want to impose.  Some people just are.  But down at the core, is there something that can help us all help each other communicate better so that things are clear and people aren’t offended?  Are there ways we can help each other grow?

extending grace

Disclaimer: This is about MANY things and MORE — please do not make assumptions.

You.  Me.  Her.  Him.  Them.  Us.

In the end, we’re all the same.  Pick your battles.  You lose.  I lose.  Someone will settle, someone always does.  Why?  Who cares?  No one does.  Wrong answer.  Someone does.  What are the stakes?  We try to preserve our pride, our selfishness, our worth, our face.  What’s right?  What’s wrong?  Why does it matter…to you? to me?  It doesn’t matter which side you’re on because at the end of the day – we’ve lost it all – we’ve become too absorbed. Critical.  Is it worth anything?  Miscommunication drives–your problems–mine.  Don’t assume.

The thing that can save us–grace.  Would you have any to give?  Do I?  Who wants to extend some grace? Take a step back–look at the big picture.  Can you see it?  Now go back in–now what?

No, I don’t want to talk about anything.  Don’t ask.

Atmosphere


Beautiful Night

This picture was taken as I got into my car after going to Vons and then walking over to Lasagna Lady. I was walking back to my car and was thinking, wow this weather is perfect right now, wow the night sky is beautiful right now, wow God’s creation is so beautiful. I’m an atmosphere influenced person. I miss the days of walking on the beach during sunset or just being able to stop and pause and stare up at the sky and admire the beauty. It’s so calming.

I really like this picture but the picture doesn’t truly reflect how beautiful the sky was. It was actually a shade darker with the beatiful orange and red on the rim and the perfect slightly cool temperature. Ah, I love it!

Balloon Hat

Giraffe with Hat

This is my favorite one yet!! So cute on the giraffe.  Making these balloons is kinda difficult.  I was going to do another dog but I decided to move on.  :)

Oh yes, and a lot of money was spent on winning this giraffe.  Thanks to wasabiwasabi for winning it for me! :)